Tuesday, March 31, 2009

Crazy Saturday (It's a long post with no pictures. Sorry! Feel free to not read it!)

So we kicked off our weekend with helping Justin and Audra (Trent's brother and his wife) move into their new home. They built the whole place themselves (well practically) and did a great job! It's so beautiful! It didn't take too long since we had already moved the bulk of their stuff last Saturday and just had the last minute things. After that Trent and I got to go with Justin, who has his real estate licence to look at houses!!! Yep, that's right Trent and I could potentially become home owners with in the year. We feel really great about this decision and feel like we can't pass up the opportunities that are out there right now. So in exchange for helping him move, Justin took us to look at a few places. The first one was nice but not really what we're looking for and the second house was in the cutest neighborhood you've ever seen but the inside...not so cute. It stunk like cigarettes and animals and the carpet was disgusting which we could replaced but the overall layout was awkward and again, not what we're looking for. I felt like I carried the stench of the house with me after I left, ew! But the third house was just right! We loved it!!! It was in an awesome area and the floor plan was just what we're looking for. We'll see what happens though. We'll probably keep looking. There's still a long road ahead of us and we're not in any huge rush to move so we're taking our time. But so excited!!

So after all the excitement of the morning I had to get back home so I could get ready to set up for our stakes' YW broadcast/YW recognition night dinner. I got to the stake center at 3 and we got right to work setting up the cultural hall and getting the food prepped. By 4:20 I left so I could take a much needed shower and get dressed so I could be back in time for the broadcast which started at 5:00. As I was leaving the parking lot to go home a little Korean woman with a small rolling suit case stopped in front of my car waving her hands in the air for me to stop. I had no choice really but to stop and see what she needed. She couldn't speak English very well but I understood that she was trying to get to a neighborhood which was one more block away and asked how to get there. When I told her how far it was she looked like she was going to cry. She timidly asked if I could take her there. Now, I'm not the type of person to ever let some stranger get in my car especially if I'm alone but I knew I needed to take her and that everything was going to be ok. I think she was expecting me to say no, and so was I to be honest, so when I said yes she cried out in relief! She got in the car and acted like it was the first time she'd ever sat down in her life. It almost looked painful for her. I got a better look at her when she got in. She had a band aid on her forehead and weird scrapes and marks all over her face. She was wearing a big jacket over a hoodie sweater and it was probably 73 degrees outside and I don't know the last time she'd showered. I knew right away that she had been through more than I could imagine. After talking to her a bit more I learned that she was trying to find a Presbyterian church where a Pasteur was going to help her get to Kingman, AZ. She was hoping to get a bus ticket that left that night so she would have a place to sleep that night. What was in Kingman I didn't know but it's a pretty far drive from Phoenix. We drove around for 20 minutes looking for this church and I began to panic. What will I do with her if I can't find it? I can't leave her on the street. I had to find this place for her! So I turned to the one person who I knew would know what to do, my wonderful husband. I called Trent and the conversation when something like this:
Me: Hey I'm in a little situation here and I need your help. Do you know of any Presbyterian church's on Alma School and Galveston?
T: Um...I know there are a ton of church's in that area but I'm not certain about a Presbyterian one. Why?
Me: Well I have a woman here who is looking for this church and I'm not sure where it is.
T: Oh well tell her I'm sorry but I don't know where it is exactly. I could try to look it up for her.
Me: Ok, could you do that? She's in my car.
T: WHAT!? You picked her up!!!!??
Me: Yes. It was the right thing to do. I'll explain later.

Clearly he wasn't too pleased I picked up a complete stranger! After we hung up we pulled into a parking lot and waited for his call. She remembered she had a phone number of the place she needed to be and so just as we were getting ready to dial it Trent quickly called us back. He found the church and it was nearby so we headed that way. When we got to the church I let her out and she repeatedly thanked me. She picked up her suit case and I watched for her to get inside ok. Once she was inside I drove off and immediately began to cry! I couldn't even begin to understand how a life like that would be. I felt concern for her that she would find where she needed to go and hoped that the people she came in touch with would help her. I felt so grateful for the life I have. I have people who love me and who would take me in no matter what if anything ever happened to me. I have a husband who I love deeply and who makes me feel safe and loved. I have always had a roof over my head and food on my table. And most importantly I have a knowledge and testimony of the restored gospel of Jesus Christ. That gives me more peace and comfort that I could even imagine possible. I have so much to be thankful for and feel a little embarrassed that it took a situation like this to open my eyes a little more!

6 comments:

amber {and co.} said...

What a sweet story! Sounds like you definitely did the right thing, I'm sure Heavenly Father put you in that exact place at that exact time to be able to help this poor woman! Way to go Lindz! Also CONGRATS on the house hunting! It really is the perfect time to buy, and looking at houses is fun, especially if you're not in a time crunch! Let us know how it goes!

mad white woman said...

You're such a good person. Not only were you in-tune enough to know it was okay to help her out, but you listened and did it. :)

I missed seeing you Saturday night... maybe next time.

Kelsey said...

Good for you Lindz! Isn't it funny how quickly we forget how blessed we are, I'm glad Heavenly Father sends us little reminders and how great it was of you to listen to the spirit so you could have this experience!! You are a great example to me Lindsay! Love ya

Rach said...

Cool! where you guys lookin for houses? in chandler or are you doin the QC thing?

Like kelsey said, you are a great example of what is right to do! isn't it great to realize how blessed we all are?

Jenessa said...

You've got a little Erin in you! She gives money to everyone and would pick up everyone if she didn't have kids. You are super sweet.
How awesome that you are looking at houses. When we bought our first house I was so excited!!

Steph @ somewhatsimple said...

how sweet. i would hope i would do the same thing if i were in your situation... and i would hope it would turn out the same way and not have me found in a ditch somewhere weeks later! (that would be my luck!)
good for you!